22.11.09

Cerita Anniversary

Oh, forgot to tell the story about our wedding anniversary. Dah pukul 4 petang baru aku teringat anniversary kami. Sebelum tu kalau aku dok tulis tarikh, memang rasa macam there's something about this date, but I wonder what, kan. Sekali tu teringat, laaaaa wedding anniversary aku rupanya. So I sms-ed Zufri, saying hey I just remebered that today's our anniversary, and love you (cukup syarat jek, haha). Dia reply 'I tau, saja nak tunggu tengok u ingat ke tak'. Cecece gila aku tak percaya ayat tu. Because I swear, lately I've been bad with dates and birthdays. Semua birthday aku tak ingat.

Masuk-masuk kereta aku cakap aku tak percaya statement dia tadi, dan dia mengaku dia pun terlupa. Hahaha. Doesn't matter lah babe, since I forgot about it as well. So dinner was supposed to be something special lah kan, tapi Emma kan super cranky dan malam hujan pulak tu. So we went to Secret Recipe saja di (gasp!) Giant.

Hadui. Zufri kata for our second wedding anniversary he's getting me a water heater. Hahahaha. Kurang asam betul statement itu. Birthday aku dia bagi washing machine. Boleh? Benci lah. Hahaha. But birthday dia tahun ni aku tak bagi dia present. Anniversary lagilah tiada. Hahaha. Oh ada. Aku belikan kepala shower yang diidamkan (yang besar gabak tu, ala shower di club house katanya). Ni tak pasang lagi, tengah tunggu wrench.

Hahaha. What a year, ey? Harap-harap next year dapat saxophone.

Soprano, kay?

Happy second anniversary, babe. I sayang u, ok.

21.11.09

Anyway, found out that she's actually teething. Sheesh

Emma ada sikiiiiit demam hari Rabu hari tu. Since it was so soon after her discharge the other day, a panic mummy quickly gave her some paracetamol, walaupun itu adalah against prinsip aku (tidak mengambil ubat di atas segala kesakitan). Nanti pain treshold dia rendah macamana? Aku jugak yang susah.

Anyway, found out that she's actually teething. Sheesh.

Emma is a terrible teether. She doesn't dribble as much, but she gets super cranky. Kalau larat nak dengar dia melalak, letaklah dia di lantai. Mujurlah I am such a patient person. Hehe. She's taken to falling asleep around 3 am because of this. Maksudnya aku jugaklah. Kadang-kadang Zufri join sekaki.

Anyway gigi yang naik tu adalah gigi gerahamnya. Aku adalah sangat musykil memandangkan so far dia hanya ada empat gigi depan aje, dua atas dua bawah. Tiba-tiba muncul dua gigi geraham atas. Dua gigi geraham bawah dah mula membengkak. Hmm.

Today we bought a few things for the house, since my in-laws are coming over the Qurban weekend. Kami memang malas nak balik, jadik kami buat korban untuk Emma di masjid sini. Alhamdulillah, walaupun dah setahun lebih baru nak buat korban. Anyway, abang sulung Zufri pun datang jugak. Jadi dalam usaha kami membuatkan mereka berasa selesa, maka a few things had to be updated around the house.

Kikiki. Juga telah update car seat untuk Emma. Ingat tak Emma's wish list for her birthday? It's numero uno, tapi Dori, bukan Tobi, since Dori can be used from newborn. Jadi boleh digunakan untuk Emma's little sibling in the future, heh heh. Isnin dan Selasa Emma akan dihantar ke Putrajaya (Zufri dan Emma berdua, woot!) since Opah akan masuk hospital pasal nak buat angiogram.

Ran into Hani and her husband at Planet Enfante kat Atria. Depa tengah dok ricki travel system Peg Perego. I dunnolah about that brand, but bapak aku ada kata masuk news in Singapore that Maclaren recalled one of its strollers because apparently childrens' fingers get cut off from using the strolles. Scary, huh? And that's from a reputable brand like Maclaren.

Huh, gila tiada korelasi ayat-ayat dan cerita-cerita aku hari ni. Penat seh mengemas rumah secara robotik. Nasib baik Emma senang tidur hari ni. Mungkin gusi dia tak sesakit sebelum ni. Syukurlah. Maybe I can get some rest now.

Yeah, maybe I should.

13.11.09

Celcom Did It Again!

Adoi semalam drama lagi lah! Zufri pergi driving range sebelah OU tu, so naturally aku dan Emma di'dropped' di OU. Dalam pukul 930 macam tu tiba-tiba ada mesej mengatakan yang akau ada 11 missed calls from Zufri! Hoo boy! Sure mengamuk punyalah Zufri. Tapi I was sure I didn't hear or feel the phone that was in my back pockey all night. Aku siap check phone sekali sekala to make sure Zufri didn't call.

Aku call balik tak dapat. No network coverage katanya. I called from the public phone, juga tak dapat. Ah, I thought. Stupid Celcom must have acted up again. Bodoh je kan? Dahle semalam jalan jam pasal ada konsert depan OU tu. Jadi aku pun berjalan dengan Emma ke driving range. Not that near. 10 minutes jog, pasal takut tiba-tiba hujan. Sambil mendukung Emma.

Oh did I mention that I had a headache from conducting a site valuation under blazing hot sun that morning? In fact, I still have it this morning. Argh.

Macam ni caranya Mummy saya berlari.

Sampai-sampai driving range, Zufri tak ada. Neither were his golf buddies. So I waited for around 10 minutes then started to walk back to OU. This time I was too tired to run. Seriously felt like crying from feeling so tired added with the meadache plus arm ache pasal takkan nak biar Emma berjalan di tengah-tengah malam di tepi jalan raya, kan? Dalam OU pun aku tak bagi sangat Emma jalan pasal she would end up snatching clothes from the racks pastu bawak lari pegi cashier. Kalau tak itu, dia nampak sesuatu di atas lantai pastu terus tiarap mencium benda itu. Oh, very unhygienic ya!

Finally got a call from Tawau on our way back to OU mengatakan Zufri tunggu kat tempat biasa.(Tawau pakai Maxis). Huhu finally reached home around 10.30.

Stupid Celcom. Should really swith to something else, huh?

12.11.09

Ahh..

Ahh.. What a week. Ms.Tang’s out again! Tomorrow she’s on leave. What else can I ask for? Menang loteri, mungkin! Amin, Amin. Hehe.

Tahukah anda bahawa The Time Traveler’s Wife sedang ditayangkan di pawagam-pawagam?

Tahukah anda bahawa prior to all the drama last week, aku dan Shikin sudah bercadang untuk berpura-pura sakit (or at least aku sahaja) dan menonton wayang tersebut di Pavillion pada hari Rabu iaitu semalam?

Tahukah anda bahawa Shikin mencadangkan agar watak Claire dimainkan oleh Audrey Tatou dan Henry oleh Christian Bale? Aku pula memilih (oh dan pendapat ini sering berubah-ubah) pasangan Edward Norton dan Lois Lane di dalam Smallville (siapalah namanya?). But I suppose Rachel McAdams will do just fine. Eric Bana seems too hunky for Henry. I did suggest James McAvoy, but we agreed that he’s too short.

Semalam Zufri ajak bercuti in December. To Hard Rock Hotel, no less. But in Penang, not Bali ya (or wherever). Woot! Mana-manalah. I’m thinking it’s too expensive. He thinks he deserves a break. Of course you do, babe. But at RM1351.00, we can relax much more by paying my credit card bills. Wakaka. Serious tak berbaloi rasanya. I mean, Penang? Sheesh.

Harus slow slow discourage suami saya agar tak membazir wang sewenang-wenangnya.

Hari ni sangat panas, kan? Terbakar muka aku pergi valuation tadi. Client ni pun sibuk, nak tengok manhole le, nak check rumput le, nak borak-borak di bawah panas terik le.. Adus.

And on a totally different note, tonight we’re eating out again. Hehe. After 4 days of eating hospital food, I find cooking very tiring. Huhu. Tiga minggu tau aku masak dinner tanpa henti, even on weekends! Lunch siap balik rumah lagi makan. A feat by my standards. Haha. Kena start balik slowly. Really slowly.

Okay, enjoy the rest of the day!

11.11.09

Oh, Terlupa Pulak

So how did you like the ridiculously long post? I have more, you know. Just not as long. As it turns out, Emma’s blood count (or platelets, I’m not sure) is quite low so the doctor said that either one of us has talesemia. Wah. Quite shocking news. Thankfully only one of us has it, so its not dangerous.

And we just found out that Emma’s blood is the same as Zufri’s, which is A+. I’m an O, which is a universal donor. Very generous of us. And we (O blood people) are picky, because we only accept our own kind. Hehe.

Jadi sekarang kalau ada orang puji Emma, Zufri akan berkata of courselah, tengoklah darah siapa. Sheesh, babe.

Oh by the way, kami rasa mungkin aku yang ada talasemia pasal dulu memang sangat susah untuk aku menderma darah. Platlet tak cukup, kata mereka.

By the way, I think I’ve gained a lot of weight lately. Sikit-sikit aku makan coklat. Sikit-sikit makan chilli cheese corntos. Lunch tadi makan mcD, siap ada sundae lagi pasal ada kupon free daripada pamayam. Kuikuikui. Ni dalam beg aku ada skittles littles. Kat rumah ada chocolate cake.

Oh! Totally forgot! Hari Isnin 9/11 birthday Zufri. Hahaha. We were still in hospital then. He was throwing up. I was freaking out. Emma was asleep, blissfully unaware of the chaos surrounding her. Ahh.. what a birthday to remember, eh?

Happy 28th birthday, babe. No party, no makan-makan, no birthday present for you this year. Tapi tak bermakna itu yang I nak untuk birthday I, ok.

10.11.09

We Are OK Now

Warning. Seriously long post ahead. Miss Tang keluar meeting. Hahaha. Sila..

Alhamdulillah, Emma sudah di-discharge semalam, with an almost clean bill of health. Problem is the cough is still there. However the pediatrician said that the coughing would take some time to heal, and at least has gone down in just one week. Some children have it for almost three long weeks! Oh such torture for their parents, not knowing what to do ey?

Ceritanya bermula begini. Hari Selasa lepas, badan Emma mula panas sikit, but no fever. Batuk ada sikit-sikit, tapi tiada kahak. Hari Rabu pagi pulak Emma tak kasi aku pergi kerja. Tak boleh dilepaskan, pasti menangis. Takkan aku nak angkut je dia ke rumah Opah dalam keadaan aku berbaju tidur, kot? Hehe. Jadi kami pun baring-baring depan tv. Dalam 8:40 Zufri call aku tanya aku di mana. Aku katalah kat rumahlah, baru 7:40 what. Hahaha aku tak pakai contacts mahupun glasses. Kesimpulannya cuti sajalah. Bagus juga aku cuti pasal kadang kala suhu badan Emma turun naik. Aku pun lap badan dia dengan air suam (never use ice or cold water because it will cause her blood vessels to constrict and keep the heat inside. When u use warm / tepid water your blood vessels expand thus releasing body heat. Correct me if I’m mistaken) dan suhu badan dia normal kembali. Batuk semakin kerap, but still no phlegm.

Hari Khamis semuanya berjalan lancar. Badan Emma sedikit hangat, but also no fever. Khamis juga bapak aku, step mom aku dan Pipi Doo datang KL for a wedding. Kami pun ambil mereka di Pudu. Emma was fine then, but Papa and Zufri commented that she felt a bit warm. The thing with Emma is, she is usually much warmer at night and while sleeping as compared to pagi hari. Initially we all thought she was teething as her gums seemed a bit swollen. So on Friday before going to bed aku lapkan lagi badan Emma. Mungkin silap aku adalah aku biarkan Emma tido dengan hanya memakai diapers. Because I read that you should not bundle up your child when they have fever. Tapi mungkin juga kaedah ini tak wajar diaplikasikan sewaktu malam. Aku rasa sangat bersalah.

Tengah-tengah malam around 3 a.m Emma woke up screaming. A temperature check showed that she’s 39.1 degrees hot. Aku pun cepat-cepat lapkan badan dia dan susukan dia dan kemudian check suhu badan dia dah turun ke 37 degrees something. Oh lupa nak cerita yang aku juga turut memberikan Emma paracetamol twice a day since Wednesday, just in case.

Friday morning I decided to take Emma to a pediatrician near my home but the clinic was closed so we took her to a new clinic in SS2 (aku, Kak Peachy, Baby Shaq, Papa dan Pipi). Masuk-masuk je klinik nurse tanya aku bila last makan ubat demam. Aku cakaplah 10 pm last night. Dia jerit kat aku kau tau. “Anak demam panas, u tak takut ke dia sawan dalam kereta?!” or something like that. Usually I’d feel defensive but that day I felt so guilty. What if she really had seizures in the car? Oh Nauzubillah!

Kemudian dia check temp, was at an all time high of 39.4°! Cepat-cepat dia bagi Emma a higher dosage of Paracetamol to keep the temperature down. Bila dicek doctor (Klinik Dr.Oh di SS2) dia suspect Emma ada pneumonia and should be admitted to hospital that day itself! Aku sangat nervous because people die from pneumonia, don’t they? Sounds like a very deadly disease. I haven’t had time to google pneumonia yet, so I wouldn’t know if my fears are unfounded. Nanti aku update on pneumonia (and bronchitis) OK.

So I decided (I swear, I made the decision by myself) for Emma to be admitted to Assunta Hospital here in PJ Old Town. Was referred to Dr.S.T.Lim who was (in my humble opinion) a very good and funny doctor. Anyway, I think all pediatrician should be friendly and funny. Did an x-ray and the radiologist confirmed that it was pneumonia! Ack! Tapi Dr.Lim kata radiologists Cuma tengok x-ray film, dia tak jumpa patient. Looking at Emma, her breathing dan sebagainya, dia putuskan yang Emma has acute bronchitis. And it was viral (caused by a virus) which is much better than bacterial. Jadi ia bukanlah nanah tetapi cuma kahak.

Alhamdulillah.

Jika anda letak telinga di belakang badan Emma, you’ll hear a cracking sound everytime she sucks in air. Sekarang sudah semakin kurang.

She was put on IV drip the first day she was admitted because she refused to eat or drink anything (including breastmilk!). Dia diberi nebulizer setiap 4 jam, and one time she struggled so hard she tore the needle from her bloody hand (not a curse word, it was bloody). Since she was nursing regularly by then, the Dr. decided to stop the drip. Tu pun pasal aku request. Pun juga aku rasa pasal nurses takut pasal drip tu tercabut dari tangan Emma kan, takut aku complaint ke kan. Hahaha.

Malam tu kami tidur berdua, jam 4 pagi Emma terjaga batuk-batuk. Tiba-tiba nurse masuk, on-kan lampu dan kata, mari kita bagi dia gas sekarang! Hahaha sangat dedikasi ya. The fact that she heard Emma coughing was shocking enough. Oh btw, kahak Emma tak disedut. Aku ada tanya doctor, dia kata tak perlu because (in her words) the salur (bronkus, is it? Trakea? Atau esophagus?) is like a tree, and the bronchiole are the branches. Bila kita sedut, hanya sampai sini (menunjuk ke separuh dada) maka hanya sampai situ saja yang disedut. Phlegm berada di branches. No use kita sedut. It will go off on its own.

OK doc!

Four trying days later, Emma was discharged. Oh, the last night there, Zufri pulak fell sick. He threw up 4 times that night. Akulah yang penat. Mana dengan Emma lagi, dengan bapak Emma lagi. Semoga berdouble-double pahala aku. Hehehe.

Masa nak discharge pulak ada drama lain. Insurance decline, tak nak bayar. Oh gila. Lagu mana cek nak bayaq? Mujurlah ejen insurans kami yang dedikasi came to the rescue. Ada la insurance terms yang aku tak ambil tahu, Syat bayarkan dulu, nanti dia buat claim, bila claim dah dibayar aku bayar balik kat dia. Hehe. Dia kena lah jaga hati dan poket client, bukan? Terima kasih Syat.

Thank you all who came, who called, who commented, and who cared.

6.11.09

Not Feeling So Good


Woke up this morning with a 39.4 degree temp! Dr.Oh suspects pneumonia. Oh! Referred to Assunta + was admitted. Xray + blood test done. Now taking urine sample. Pray for me, everyone.

Not Feeling So Good


Woke up this morning with a 39.4 degree temp! Dr.Oh suspects pneumonia. Oh! Referred to Assunta + was admitted. Xray + blood test done. Now taking urine sample. Pray for me, everyone.

3.11.09

Bapak's Guidance.


Bapak, jauh lagi perjalanan kita ni. Lead, and I shall follow.

2.11.09

Happy Halloween Everyone!


And happy 15 month birthday, Emma!

She's busy concentrating on strangling a ghoul! A charmed one, mungkin Emma ni? Huhu.